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March 9th, 2026

A lot has happened this weekend.

  • On Friday, I didn't know much to to do. So I asked C to dinner.
  • We were looking to get something to celebrate my promotion, so we tried Mensho Ramen.
  • Unfortunately, the line was long, so we went to 707 Sutter for some Korean food.
  • Then, afterwards, we tried to go to a bar for Mahjong night, but I think we were sleepy and tired.
  • We ended up going back to fall asleep.
  • On Saturday, I cooked her some eggs and brown rice.
  • We then headed down to Junbi on Market to review their drinks.
  • I slipped into a hotel nearby to use the restroom.
  • Then we took the Red Bart down to Mission. I was frustrated walking to the food.
  • It was really hot, and I was tired and hungry. Moody.
  • We quickly ate Mediterranean lugging with us a lot of leftovers, and headed over to the bookstore.
  • Dog-eared books. We picked a book out for one another and let each other read.
  • We read at Mission-Dolores Park. There were a lot of people and dogs.
  • A DJ came up next to us blasting music, so we moved.
  • Then we headed to Noe Valley to try an Izakaya place.
  • A number of families in eating at the Noe Valley restaurant.
  • C paid. I tried to fight with her.
  • We went on the BART to my home. Then, we spent the night having sex.
  • Sex itself was explanatory. Missionary, riding, doggy.
  • But I think what surprised me the most was post-sex.
  • She was sitting on the toilet, and I was on the floor looking up at her.
  • A feeling of oxytocin or admiration or just love welled up inside of me.
  • I felt an indescribable bond between me and her. It was strange.
  • I felt bonded undoubtedly. I looked into her eyes and I cried.
  • She cried tears too, tears of joy. She felt loved.
  • I felt a yearning, a love, and all of the above for this girl on the toilet.
  • If the need arose, I would gladly lay down my life for her.
  • On Sunday, we awoke late. We decided to try another tea place in Mission, Cere tea.
  • But first, we ate leftover Mediterranean. Then we went to the cafe.
  • At the cafe, I snuck to the library to use the restroom.
  • Remember what we ordered at the cafe? Banana pudding matcha tea and Jasmine Osmanthus matcha Tea. And Hojicha Osmanthus matcha tea.
  • Then we went to go to Union Square to try Mahjong, but it was mostly older folks there.
  • We played Badmitton instead while waiting for the ping pong tables to free up, but they never did.
  • I suggested we go paly Badmitton at a club one day.
  • Afterwards, we went to Dumpling Time.
  • We tried the XLB and various other things, a lobster xiu mai.
  • A great dinner.
  • We came home, and C gave me a BJ but I could not finish. I expressed my anger and sadness towards myself. She shared her experiences with metacognition and understanding her emotions.
  • The next morning was time for work. I cooked bacon and eggs for her and I.
  • For lunch, we ate Saigonese Cafe. Banh mi and chaud pate.
  • Then we came back. I finished up work.
  • We had sex again. Though afterwards we agreed the post-sex wasn't as nice the first time. There was some bond that formed that seemed strong and memorable.
  • We went to go eat Korean food down Sutter, then I gave her a kiss goodbye.

I love her.