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A Gal Named C

December 14th, 2025

I will write how the date went here for posterity:

I enjoyed chatting with her. I think this was a fun first date.
C is a wholesome person, judgemental in ways, accepting in others.
She is the organizer, a camp counseler type personality. Extrovert.
She likes yapping. Her friends she keeps close and cares for. Deeply.
She doesn't like boba, but she likes bakeries and pastries. She likes cafe hopping.
Cutesy things, she likes. She spends time with her friends a lot, and ever since graduating trying to keep her days busy.
She brokeup with a boy recently, fired from her job, drama on a friend group trip.
She tried a bakery recently, went down to Mission for coffee, and overall enjoys exploring the city.
She bumps into people she knows a lot in Japantown and Stonestown, since, well, she grew up here.
She's afraid of the dark, rightfully so, some bad homeless encounters have made her uneasy about the whole thing of going out at night. Rightfully so.
I think she has an opinion of male vs. female approaches to the world, in that they're delineated in the way they see the world. I do think that the way society and the way we teach our children how to act and approach and teach are fundamentally different. I do think so. But I think, beneath the unique experiences, that ultimately, without the way of the ego and mind, that we are all really just people.
She had a pet hamster. I had a pet turtle.
She likes spicy things. She bonds over text.